This site was produced in consultation with young people in Nottinghamshire by NDVF
Respect not Fear

In this website...

Don’t forget to have a go at our four revealing relationships games…

How Respectful are you to your partner?  Get real with yourself and try our Respectometer game to find out.

What is important to you in a relationship?  The Pyramid Game will help you decide.

Why do YOU think people mistreat their partners?  The ‘Excuses Excuses’ game uncovers the real reason for abuse.

When it comes to sex, what do consent and consequences mean? Find out in the Consent and Consequences game.

Respectometer - Test your relationship online

Are you stressed? Are you down?




If you are experiencing abuse, you may be worrying a lot about your relationship.   You may be finding it hard to cope with their behaviour, and you may have started to feel down. When people experience abuse it can make them feel lots of different emotions. They may feel sad, depressed, stressed, guilty, tearful, anxious or scared.

Sometimes partners can use your stress and worry to make you feel worthless.  They may have called you mad or unstable.  This is unacceptable behaviour.  Feeling as if you're to blame for the abuse can make you feel even more down about your situation.

If you leave your partner you may find that the feelings of depression get better but you may also become stressed due to the experiences you have had.  If you are worried about how you are feeling, here is a link to information for young people for depression and other mental health issues.

A young person's introduction to mental health

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