This site was produced in consultation with young people in Nottinghamshire by NDVF
Respect not Fear

In this website...

Don’t forget to have a go at our four revealing relationships games…

How Respectful are you to your partner?  Get real with yourself and try our Respectometer game to find out.

What is important to you in a relationship?  The Pyramid Game will help you decide.

Why do YOU think people mistreat their partners?  The ‘Excuses Excuses’ game uncovers the real reason for abuse.

When it comes to sex, what do consent and consequences mean? Find out in the Consent and Consequences game.

Respectometer - Test your relationship online

Are you worried about money?



Abusive partners often take control of the money in relationships.  In order to keep control, they can stop their partners from getting jobs, or buying other things like phone credit or bus fares.

Money issues can be a cause of stress when people choose to end abusive relationships, which could mean having to move out of a shared home.

If you are worried about money because you have left an abusive partner or if you need to find out your benefit rights there are different organisations that can help you.

You can contact Connexions if you need help about benefits and work.  Connexions offer lots of advice on different matters.  You can find out who the worker that you can talk to in your area by linking into this site: www.connexions.gov.uk/   

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