This site was produced in consultation with young people in Nottinghamshire by NDVF
Respect not Fear

In this website...

Don’t forget to have a go at our four revealing relationships games…

How Respectful are you to your partner?  Get real with yourself and try our Respectometer game to find out.

What is important to you in a relationship?  The Pyramid Game will help you decide.

Why do YOU think people mistreat their partners?  The ‘Excuses Excuses’ game uncovers the real reason for abuse.

When it comes to sex, what do consent and consequences mean? Find out in the Consent and Consequences game.

Respectometer - Test your relationship online

Are you worried about your sexual health?



If you are being forced or pressurised into doing sexual things you don't like, or aren't sure about then this is abuse.

Sexual abuse can include:

  • things you don't want; don't like
  • not using protection even though you want to
  • deliberately passing on a sexual infection
  • making you become pregnant/making you have an abortion if you are a woman
  • taking away your contraception if you are a woman to make you pregnant
  • having affairs
  • forcing you to have sex for money
  • making you have sex with people when you don't want to, or not giving you the opportunity to say no.


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